Muscat: As the school year begins, students enter schools with new backpacks, filled with a mix of hope and nerves. Yet, behind these moments lies a wave of mixed emotions for parents, who experience a blend of joy watching their children embark on a new chapter in their lives and anxiety over the potential challenges ahead. This is particularly true for parents of kindergarteners.
Maha al Rashidi, a mother, shared her feelings, saying, “I couldn’t hold back my tears when I saw my son entering school for the first time. I felt both happiness and pride, but also anxiety, especially since my son Fahad is very shy and not accustomed to being around strangers." Said al Shukaili, another parent, expressed his happiness, saying, “This day was filled with joy, especially when I saw my daughter smiling and waving at me from the school door.
What made me even happier was seeing how content my daughter was at this stage, without any sign of anxiety. I wish her a successful school year.” Khalid al Rawahi shared his concerns: “ Although I’m pleased about the start of the school year, I can't shake off the anxiety about the challenges my daughter might face in this new phase. I hope the school is mindful of this and prioritises safety measures and the mental well-being of our children.” Fatima al Harthy described her mixed feelings: “ It was tough to leave my child at school. I hesitated before leaving and even wanted to take him back home because he was crying a lot. But I know he needs to start this educational journey. I am excited to see how he grows and hope he enjoys making new friends." While parents bid farewell, teachers welcomed the students with warmth and anticipation.
Hafsa al Abri, both a mother and a teacher at Bareem Nizwa Private School, said, “I completely understand the anxiety and stress parents feel on the first day of school. As a mother, I share those fears, but as a teacher, I want to assure everyone that I treat each of my students like my own children. I strive to make them feel safe and secure, just as I would want for my son on his first day.” On this day, many schools aim to create a fun and engaging atmosphere to ease children’s fears and anxieties, helping them adjust to their new surroundings and peers.
Hanan Yousef Ibrahim, Principal of Bareem Nizwa Private School, discussed the school's efforts for the first day: “ The first day of the school year is always filled with anticipation and mixed emotions. We strive to make this day as special and calm as possible. Our preparations begin well before the start of school; we decorate with bright colours and organise interactive activities to help children quickly adapt to their new environment.” “One of our main challenges is easing children through the separation from their parents, so we focus heavily on psychological and emotional support. We also encourage parents to prepare their children for this transition and cooperate with us during the early days.
Ultimately, we want every child to feel that school is their second home.” Offering further guidance, Dr Samiah al Zadjali, an educational consultant, explained: “It’s normal for parents to have mixed emotions on the first day of school. It's helpful for parents to discuss these feelings with their children and reassure them of their ongoing support. Parents should avoid displaying their anxiety in front of their children, as this can negatively impact their emotions. Instead, focus on the positive aspects, such as meeting new friends and learning new skills.”
To ensure a smooth and enjoyable start to the school year, parents are encouraged to prepare their children emotionally by discussing school beforehand and even visiting the school together before the first day to familiarise them with the surroundings. Establishing a daily routine helps children adjust to the school schedule, ensuring sufficient rest and sleep. Involvement in school activities can enhance a child's sense of belonging and foster positive relationships with the school community.
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