Life is full of uncertainties. Each of us has experienced the ups and downs and meander in life. At times failures create a barrier to achieving our goals. Failure is real and should be accepted as it is inherent. The reasons for failure may vary. The experience of failure leads to sadness, mental trauma, depression, negativism and gives the feeling of sorrowfulness.
And on the other side, failures teach us many lessons by which one learns to overcome the hurdles in life. One has to learn how to overcome the failures and always think in the positive direction of achieving the target or desired goals. Therefore, I believe failure should always be taken or acquired as a chance to grow with compassion.
One needs to find out the cause of the failure. At times failure can be very powerful and will make you give up on your aim. It's the actual test of your determination and devotion to ensuring your dreams and plans turn into reality.
Accepting failure is very important rather than looking for an escape. You will get peace of mind by accepting reality and truth. You have to take ownership of your failures and committed mistakes; this will help you control your sentiments and give you the initiation to think for a bright future with a positive note.
The most important thing is to be focused and positive. So often, it is observed that one starts dropping down their standards in attaining their goals and aims. The best way to overcome this is to plan to achieve your goals one at a time.
Dignity is equally vital for good health. Physical strength can be gained and maintained by good health. Balanced and healthy self-esteem gives mental strength. It is always suitable for self-care to keep a distance from people who provoke your mental peace.
One has to be tenacious as one fears the negative remarks and criticism that are originated from failures. Don't forget it is your life, and you should not give liberty to lead and interfere in your life. The criticism should not mentally weaken you and your self-esteem. One should boldly accept the failure and plan to overcome those. It would be best if you were strong enough, and the belief and censure of others should not become a hurdle in reaching your goal and lowering your energy level.
A plan is a force that gives one consistency. A proper plan helps one as a guiding tool and helps to achieve the desired goal in life. Organised planning is required for long-term and short-term plans. The goals can be achieved with sheer hard work and less relying on luck. One should understand the reason for failure and must take it on a positive note. A plan helps one achieve the goal with systematic time and resources. Avoid keeping the baggage of failure on the shoulder. No one is interested and keeps a record of the failures before you succeed. Always keep in mind progress is impossible without change. Those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything.
Everyone in this world has to face failure one or another day. At this time, you need to talk to your near and dear ones. These friends and family members are the key supporters and strong pillars in stormy times of your life. Try to find out the failures of the famous personalities in the world and see how they have overcome the failure. Don't be hesitant to approach your well-wishers for guidance. At times the best idea is to speak to yourself to get the feel of relief. One should always keep his confidence and self-esteem high. Take failure as a learning experience and lesson.
I feel one should accept their failure wholeheartedly. If you fail, there is nothing wrong. Try to come out of your comfort zone and strive to achieve the goal. To overcome the failure, be cool and calm; this is when your patience is tested, and you try to plan and move forward. Let your dream be a source of motivation.
Lastly, I would like to conclude with a quote - Waves are inspiring, Not Because They Rise to Fall.... But because they never fail to rise again... So be positive.
(The author is Head - Physical Education Department,
Indian School Salalah)
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